You are right, Leharna, everybodies body is different, & what works for me, probably won't work for you. John you are an inspiration for all of us. I will be 69 on Tuesday, so I've a way to go to catch you up, mind. But good on you for being a fanatical label reader, and on your weight loss.
I lost 6.8 kilos by Xmas Eve, was really good over Xmas, except I was eating more, to compensate for not eating anything sugary in the jolly season, so I put on almost 4 kilos by Feb. So I had to 'tweak' my eating, I cut back on bread & potatoes, change the white pasta & rice for brown, & cut back on my portion sizes. Now I am 14 kilos lost, and have been fructose free for 11 months.
So yes, Em,you can lose weight, but it depends on your metabolism, I guess. Try cutting back on portion sizes. Try keeping a food diary for a week or so, & see where you're maybe eating more than you should.
If it's motivation you need, try joining the SparkPeople website. There are so many inspirational people there it's heartbreaking. One woman, who is one of the women who run the Sparkies Down Under SparkTeam, was so big she had to get around in a wheelchair, but now she exercises & has lost so much weight, I can't get my head around it all. There are people there who have all sorts of ailments, arthritis, scoliosis, you name it, they got it....Just put SparkPeople in your search engine & it will come up. It's an American site, so using their recipe/calorie counter is challenging, but it's fun. You can make yourself a SparkPage, & upload some photos, whatever you like. It has weight trackers, so much stuff to help you. Sign up for some of the free newsletters, you can get exercises, recipes, motivational advice on everything under the sun. I've made some good friends since going on there, some from Oz, some from the States & Canada.
Em, have you joined up with David's other site, the free one, Sweet Poison yet? Lots of stuff you can look up on there. Just 2 more questions. 1. Have you made yourself any goals yet? Long & short term ones. 2. Are you doing any exercise? Even walking will help, if you do it fairly regularly, with a view to upping it as you get smaller & lighter. We love a good story, so keep trying, Em & keep on posting.
I wish lots of success for you, Em. Don't give up. Just keep on 'tweaking'! good Luck......
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