Welcome to you both. Pam, I'd still be watching those carbs. Nasty little b*****s they are. I think I lost about 6 kilos before last Xmas, then, even though I'd been good over the silly season, I started to put on weight again, I put back on 3 kilos, I think, before I realised I had been doing what you are doing, eating all the things I used to before I started to cut out the fructose. It was the appetite control, with me it took about 4 months to really kick in. As soon as I cut back on bread/pasta/potatoes, and ate a bit more protein & watched the portion sizes, I began to lose weight again. I started beginning of Sept 2010, and have now lost 16 kilos.
It wasn't easy, but it happened slowly, and that's what you have to realise, it probably took a long time to put it on, it's not going to come off overnight, well, it may, but won't be good for you. Best to realise that this isn't a diet, It's a way of life, so don't expect spectacular things to happen, just enjoy them when they happen, first ,milestone, overcoming withdrawals, 2nd milestone, getting that appetite control back. That's when it will all be worth it.
So keep on doing what you can, the dextrose treats are just that, treats, not for everyday use, for special occasions only, (or in an emergency, of course, lol)........
I wish you both the very best with your new way of life. Focus on the good things, and the end game, and you will coast through it. If you get those little 'downer' times, just talk them away, any way you can. Do something different to what you're doing when you're having the thoughts. Just make yourself do whatever.
Run around the house naked, (always supposing you're alone! lol) read a book, watch TV, log on here & the Sweet Poison forum & vent, anything to take your mind off the negative thoughts. (Warning, please be sure & warn your partner, if there's a possibility of you doing any of these things in the middle of the night!!) Blame me!!
Those are my tips for today, ladies!! I hope they help.
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